Venting Topic/Hugs Topic

by **SolsticeEquinox** Sat Jan 10, 2015 10:02 pm

I know that sometimes, people can get you down. Maybe you've had a hard time. Come here and post, someone (I'll make sure I do no matter what) will respond. They don't even have to respond if you don't wish of them to. I promise people out there care about you, even if they've never met you.

Post here if you've been going through a hard time. If something bad just happened. *hugs everyone who reads this*

by **Erinyes** Sat Jan 10, 2015 10:39 pm

No words

this topic is just perfect, and I hope many persons will be sensible enough to understand, not that I have no hope or thrust, but Who have not faced people that act like they care and on the countrary they feel bothered? XD sighs
again, good idea
I hug you too, strongly X3 Comforting Dragon

and thank you

by **Edan** Sat Jan 10, 2015 11:00 pm

well here goes -le sigh-

People at school seem to not like me cause I'm...too happy or something like that. I really can't even find a reason but they have turned to calling me fat, ugly and so many other things. Its getting really annoying and I hope other people dont have to go through this. If anyone is going through it I feel yah and if you need someone to talk to specifically (Like if they dont want to announce it to the whole site) Then you can contact me in a pm. Shy Dragon 2

by **Nizza** Sat Jan 10, 2015 11:04 pm

Edan wrote:well here goes -le sigh-

People at school seem to not like me cause I'm...too happy or something like that. I really can't even find a reason but they have turned to calling me fat, ugly and so many other things. Its getting really annoying and I hope other people dont have to go through this. If anyone is going through it I feel yah and if you need someone to talk to specifically (Like if they dont want to announce it to the whole site) Then you can contact me in a pm.

This is Solstice by the way, just on an alt. c:

Okay, if you're too happy and they don't like that, then just enjoy your life and let them be grumps. You're perfect in your own unique way. If people say you're fat and ugly, just remember that you're just you. There is nothing better than that. Remember this. But hey, if they continue it, don't get upset. Let the haters roll off of your shoulders, dear. <3

*hug*

by **Hyruu** Sun Jan 11, 2015 3:14 am

What grade are you at the moment ? (... oh wait I won't even be able to get it since we don't count the same way XD)
But from my experience, it can only get better as you'll get in higher grades. I remember that at "collège" (which for us is roughly from about 10 years old to 15 years old) was the time it was the worse. High school was better since kids were now a bit more mature, in my case I almost had cordial relations with the people who were making fun of me before (that felt strange XD). Well and then college and later, people will either accept you the way you are or just not talk to you.
So yeah don't worry, you know what they say kids can be the most cruel of all beings. Besides at that point it might even be jealousy XD

by **Frostflare** Sun Jan 11, 2015 3:32 am

I have a gif that everybody in this topic needs to see.
Venting Topic/Hugs Topic Pika10

Now I will hug everybody. *hugs* Dragon Hug

by **SolsticeEquinox** Sun Jan 11, 2015 9:59 am

To all of those who are supporting others: Thank you so much. Showing people that there are people that care is just amazing. It can save lives. Remember guys, don't be afraid to post here if there's something wrong! And if that makes you uncomfortable, PM me or someone you trust. I'll always be happy to talk.

by **Frostflare** Sun Jan 11, 2015 10:45 am

Oh Sol you're too sweet.

by **Hyruu** Mon Jan 12, 2015 1:03 pm

Well then I guess I'll take my turn to use this thread. I guess it's more going to be a vent than anything, and mainly a vent against myself.
Basically, I'm actually in my last year of engineering school and I need a six months internship, in my case abroad. But finding something isn't that easy, the internships are supposed to begin at mid-march and the only firms that had answered me didn't give any other sign of life, so I guess it didn't work. And now I'm getting extremely worried and angry at that problem. Worried because I really fear I won't be able to find anything, there's no way I repeat the year only because I didn't find an internship. And angry at myself because despite that, I'm still unable to move. Both because of laziness and because of fear. I am extremely shy, at the point that simply writing an email turns to be a nightmare. But it still doesn't explain everything.

So there I sit, conflicted between a part of myself that denies the fact I could have made more efforts and blames it on my fears, and the other part that just knows I'm screwing my internship research.

by **Jadespine** Mon Jan 12, 2015 3:51 pm

I'm not up to that level yet. I'm only a sixth grader. Maybe someone that you know knows about this? If so, you could ask them. I don't know if they still are, but Canada was looking for engineers. (My mom told me this.) This may mean there are more spots for interns. I'm not sure, but if they need a spot to fill then you might be more likely to get one there. I'm shy too. (I'm also secretly terrified of my parents.) But sometimes the worst part is the fear and not the result. Best of luck!

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